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And the Winner is…

Author: Michelle
February 24, 2010

Recently the boys had their Pine Derby Race with the Boy Scouts. They worked very hard on their cars with their Dad. At one point I walked into the garage and found Alex on top of the table saw, sawing his block of wood into the shape of his car.

 

The day of the big race arrived. The boys were very excited. Andy won for Best Design while Alex won for Most Creative. I think mainly because Tim put the fenders on backwards.

 

The cars did very well. Alex came in second. Andy came in third. Alex is moving on to Districts. If the first place winner is unable to attend, then Andy can go in his place.

 

I’m amazed at how much they helped with their cars. Their Dad is teaching them something only a Dad can do. It’s back to the traditional roles of man vs woman. Don’t get me wrong, I believe anyone can do what they set their mind to do regardless of gender. However, to make a household run, everyone has their part in helping out. Dads will teach their sons what they do best while Moms will teach the girls what they know best. And in the end, it takes those roles to get things done around the house.

I do! Do You?

Author: Michelle
February 7, 2010

Do you tell your kids that you love them every day? I do! We have a little fun with it too.

 

Me: “I’m going to tell you something you don’t know.” Dramatic pause. “I love you!”

 

Alyssa, Alex or Andy (any one or all): “I knew that!”

 

Me: “No you didn’t!”

 

Their response: “Yes I did!”

 

Me: “How did you know?”

 

Them: “Because you tell us every day.”

 

Their responses usually carry the tone of frustration. It’s like SERIOUSLY MOM, YOU DO THIS ALL THE TIME. I’M NOT STUPID. I KNOW THIS! That’s OK with me. It’s “our” thing. It’s how we roll. We have fun and there isn’t a doubt in my kids’ minds as to whether I love them or not.

 

We recently watched Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs. There is a scene in the movie where Mr. T wants his son to know that he loves him. The son’s response, “Dad, you tell me every day.” Tim & I immediately looked at each another. I’m not the only one.

 

Alex has tried to put his own twist on it as well.

 

Me: “I love you.”

 

Alex: “I love you more.”

 

The other two have picked up on it as well. We each go back and forth NO, I LOVE YOU MORE.

 

It’s our thing. It’s how we roll. We enjoy it. That’s what matters.

 

I LOVE YOU… MORE!!!

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